[georgy]

Wednesday 17th Jan 2007 - Get Jade out! She's a liar and a bully! You know you love my rants!
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[font=Arial]Right - I have to now say something about Big Brother. In fact I'm going to rant BIG TIME; just so you know. Here goes:

GET JADE OUT. She's a liar (turns out she had lipo and didn't work off her fat as advertised in her fitness dvd - she has conned ALL her fans) and she's a bully. I've been saying for two years that I can't bear the girl as she is vile and a bully and people haven't listened to me. How many times do I have to say "I'm never wrong!"????? I am glad she has shown her true colours and I am glad I have been proven right (again!). Don't you just love saying "I told you so!" - I can never quite get enough of saying that! Sorry...........

Let's start at the beginning. This isn't just going to be a rant at Jade; this is also going to be a defence piece about Jo (from S Club). Jo, since leaving S Club, has had a lot of problems. I won't go into them on here as it's not my place to do so, but trust me; she's had it tough. She was terrified about going into the house but felt she had no choice but to do it (for reasons I won't go into). Jo is actually a very vulnerable person. She is in NO way a bully or mean or nasty to anyone. She makes friends everywhere she goes and is highly amusing, entertaining, fiercely loyal to her friends and extremely down to earth. She is in NO way racist either (she has Indian cousins who she loves dearly). From watching Big Brother these are the conclusions I have come to:


Jo is being influenced by Jade because she is scared of her. The main thing that terrified Jo about going into Big Brother was that she might get bullied the way I did when I was in the house. She openly admitted to me that she wouldn't be able to handle it at all. Jo knows that if she doesn't stick with the strongest character in the house (Jade) then she runs the risk of being bullied herself. She's also very easily led ie. if you are nice to Jo, she will be your friend forever. Jade has very cleverly manipulated Jo AND Danielle. Jade is not as stupid as she makes out to be. Jade knows that the whole "stupidity" thing works for her and that the public supposedly "love" her for it so she is putting it on to try and make people love her even more. Anyone who watched that whole Eskimo chat the other night from Jade would have seen how fake that was. Me and my friends cringed as she was saying all that because we could see she was putting it on. You could actually see her brain ticking over, thinking of what stupid thing she could say next to appear dumb. She WANTS people to think she's stupid, when in fact; she's not at all.

The proof of Jade manipulating Danielle and Jo is right there in front of our eyes. Before Jade entered the house Jo and Danielle were sweet and kind and funny. There was no malice towards anyone from either of them and at one point BOTH were even tipped to win. From the moment Jade entered the house and 'befriended' the pair of them; the bitching started. Danielle even admitted this on tonight's Big Brother. She said that she shouldn't be a "follower" and that she is ashamed that she has been so nasty to Shilpa. Everyone else in the house has also pointed out that the problems only started when Jade entered. As Shilpa herself said "Danielle and Jo were lovely before Jade came in - we cuddled all the time!". Not only that but THREE people have walked out since Jade arrived (and it's pretty damn obvious that they left because of Jade). Donny said "I'm not serving that moron and her family" before legging it over the wall. Ken left after Jade had screeched at him (in her attempt to make people think she was caring - yeah right!) and Leo left not long after. Mmmmmmmmn. A mistake putting Jade in there in the first place? I think so.............


In my opinion, Jo and Danielle have become like Jade's little errand girls. They are doing all they can to keep her on side and to impress her (because they are scared of her and maybe even look up to her, in the way that the weak kids at school look up to the popular ones). Jade is now sitting back, loving the fact that they are doing all her dirty work and she is stirring it all up by getting little digs in and encouraging them to do the same.

I do think that Shilpa is being bullied. She hasn't done anything to deserve it and I feel very sorry for her. I want to go in there and give her a cuddle and tell her it's all going to be ok. Personally, I think my bullying in there was worse as the bullies were screaming in my face every minute of every day (at one point I thought Bullymore was going to hit me!). Plus there is the fact that I live in England and so when I came out I had to be constantly reminded of the bastards forever more. Luckily for Shilpa, she can go home when this finishes and never have to see them again. She can be around all the people who love her when it's over and never have to see Jade's ugly face again. Unfortunately for me; on the odd occasion I do still turn on the TV or flick through a paper to see Michael Barrymore (possible murderer) or Pete Burns' vile faces staring back at me. Not nice, let me tell you!!!


Anyway, because I know Jo so well and because I KNOW that she is far from a bully (she was bullied so badly at school herself that she would never bully anyone - trust me!) I feel I have to defend her here and point out what is actually happening. Anyone who saw tonight's show probably knows all this anyway. Dirk said tonight "there is ONE person in here causing all this - Jade" See - ONE person. Even the other housemates know it. They can all see how manipulative, scheming and horrible Jade is. She's not thick at all. She's highly intelligent and knows full well how to manipulate people.


The reason she is picking on Shilpa (and encouraging Jo and Danielle to do the same) is that Shilpa is all the things Jade will never be. She's beautiful, educated, stylish, honest, classy, lady-like and elegant. Jade is threatened by her and therefore wants to take her down. Bullies always pick on people who make them feel insecure. They do it because it makes them feel better about themselves.

I love Shilpa and Jermaine. Jermaine is a dude!!!!!! His advice to Shilpa has been amazing. "Don't stoop to her level" and "if she wants to disrespect herself then let her" etc etc. Top bloke! Shilpa should carry on listening to him as he is a very wise and grounded man. He will carry her through this hideous ordeal if she carries on listening to him! I only wish I had had someone like him in there while I was being picked on. He would have talked sense into me and kept me sane. Instead I was made to feel like I was the mental one (which is what Jade is trying to do to Shilpa).

I want Jermaine or Shilpa (or even Dirk) to win this now. I think they have come across extremely well. I did want Jo to win and I'm not saying I don't want her to win anymore but after this horrible Jade bullying situation I don't think she will (unless she can grow some balls, get away from Jade and turn it all around for herself). Jo really is such a nice person. She's not cruel to anyone; in fact she's scared of confrontation and only wants to have fun in life. I can see (as can Jo's friends and family) that Jo is scared of Jade and that she is sticking with her purely so that she doesn't get picked on herself. In the outside world Jo wouldn't even consider being friends with someone like Jade. Luckily in tonight's show, Danielle has pretty much said all this anyway. Jade is the instigator, she is the real bully here and she is the nasty, spiteful, manipulative, jealous piece of work. Oh and she's a liar..... Need I say more? And 25th most influential person in the world? Come on now.... Who ever said that? A three year old? I don't know where Jade got that amusing piece of information about herself but whoever said it (that's if she didn't make it up herself) needs a good talking to (and perhaps putting in a strait jacket). What is the world coming to, I ask you? If she's influential to absolutely anybody then I am a virgin! Who would EVER want to be like Jade Goody I ask thee?!!!



I cannot stress enough that Jo is very vulnerable and weak right now. She was absolutely terrified of going into the house and said to me "I won't cope with it if they pick on me like they did you!" with tears in her eyes. Please don't hate her or think badly of her. See Jo the way I see her: as someone who has lost their way in life a little bit, someone who's scared and lonely and vulnerable and who wants to fit in. She's someone who wants to be with the popular gang because she's scared of what they might do to her if she's not.

I'm going to leave it there for now cos I think I've said enough for one night. As soon as Jade is up for nomination I beg you to vote her out so that the house can return to being nice and pleasant again. It's not fair on poor Shilpa and every bit of venom is coming from Jade.



At this point I would like to apologise to every Indian in the world on behalf of the moron Jade Goody (because she won't do it herself). Us English aren't all as hideous as her; in fact, right now I am embarrassed to admit that I am from the same country as her. Goodnight.

GET JADE OUT

I have to admit that I don't agree that jo should be ignored here and that her and Danielle are just being influenced, I think that those 2 are very spiteful too.

[Dolby Kid]

Who cares what that bullying munter thinks about anything?

[TriggerHappyTri]

I think she has put a case for Jo together very well - seems like she is being a very good friend

She was doing very well in this piece until she started defending Jo.

Jo might be a nice person to Jodie but I find Jo to be a disgusting, mean, nasty and shameless person.

The only reason we will see backtracking from Jo and Danielle is because they are scared for their own careers. No other reason.

Why don't they just take the middle road like that saviour and liar Cleo does? She manages to keep both sides sweet whilst actually siding with Jade.

Jo has no defence. By joining the bullies in order to save her own skin, she is truly truly atrocious. Why not leave the house then if Jo is so scared of being victimised and genuinely is such a nice girl?

[Kiwi one]

georgy thanks for posting that. A very well thought out post from Jodie Marsh. So you could say that Jade has intimated Joe. I must say that Joe looked really happy when she was performing for the task. That was the Joe I remembered.

[eskel]

I'm sorry but she might have a point about Jade, but that is hardly the blog of a person who "claims" to be an ambassador for beat bullying. I dont think she can defend the actions of Jo.
also spot the me me me me..."It was worse for me?"

Jo showed she has a nasty side and is racist, even if only subconsciously.

[rapunzal]

GET JADE OUT. She's a liar (turns out she had lipo and didn't work off her fat as advertised in her fitness dvd - she has conned ALL her fans) and she's a bully. I've been saying for two years that I can't bear the girl as she is vile and a bully and people haven't listened to me. How many times do I have to say "I'm never wrong!"????? I am glad she has shown her true colours and I am glad I have been proven right (again!). Don't you just love saying "I told you so!" - I can never quite get enough of saying that! Sorry...........


This bit is sport on!! Jade was so up in arms about lies - she pulled a super lie when releasing work out DVD's and the munter was away getting lipo cos she is too lazy to even try.

I switched off last night - she was like a woman possessed - the hate, venom - everything was oto much to watch.

Big Brother are disgusting for not intervening they are condoning this. They should have hauled her into the diary room when she jumped to her feet!! They are the culprits as much as anyone and I think that they should kick her out now and not even justify her with an eviction - I cnnot believe they are still taking the stance of "business as usual".

[D22]

Originally Posted by georgy

et's start at the beginning. This isn't just going to be a rant at Jade; this is also going to be a defence piece about Jo (from S Club). Jo, since leaving S Club, has had a lot of problems. I won't go into them on here as it's not my place to do so, but trust me; she's had it tough. She was terrified about going into the house but felt she had no choice but to do it (for reasons I won't go into). Jo is actually a very vulnerable person. She is in NO way a bully or mean or nasty to anyone. She makes friends everywhere she goes and is highly amusing, entertaining, fiercely loyal to her friends and extremely down to earth. She is in NO way racist either (she has Indian cousins who she loves dearly). From watching Big Brother these are the conclusions I have come to:

I wonder what her Indian cousins, who she loves so "dearly", make of her comments on Indians all being thin from eating unhygenic food.
And we've all had problems- since when has having a lot of problems made nasty, biggoted bullying behaviour condonable.

[georgy]

I feel a tiny bit sorry for jo. If her life sucked so much before she went in, so much so that she's £35,000 in debt allegedly...then it's gonna suck so much more when she sees the press she's getting.

Mob rule is going to get the better of her, and really, is it right to retaliate bullying with mob rule? no its not, 2 wrongs don't make a right.

This'll tip her over the edge

Don't feel sorry in the slightest for Jo, and don't get me started on Jodie Marsh


If she hates bullying that much, why does she never have a civil word to say about Jordan. A girl who is 100 times better looking, 100 times more successful and great mother (including all the stress of bringing up a disabled child).

Jealousy plain and simple, just like most bullies

[slappers r us]

If Jo was Bullied she should know better

no excuses

[Sooz]

Jodie is making out Jo is scared of Jade - sorry, can't see that at all, she wouldn't be saying a word if that was the case, she's the one that mimicks Shilpa's accent...

[deep.red.velvet]

How she can defend that girl on the same page as talking about her experiences of being bullied is beyond me. so its ok for jo to be agressive, nasty , giggling and encoraging is it. Jo is a grown woman, who has not just sat on tne side lines, she has insitigated and had conversations with Danielle about Shilpa without JADE EVEN BEING PRESENT. pull the other one Jodie it plays jinglebells.Some-ones feeling the need to defend their public support of their "friend" , which got them through the door of little brother again.

[georgy]

I don't think they're scared of Jade either, I think they idolise her. Whether we like it or not, Jade is the most currently famous person in that house right now, and they know it. It's like following the most popular girl at school....I've said it before, it's Mean Girls!

[Paperbag_Writer]

Jodie says that Jo would never bully anyone else having been bullied herself. But the evidence before our eyes says otherwise, unfortunately.

[supershopper]

Tough! Sorry but Jo bullying someone after she has been bullied herself is disgraceful. She knows the pain yet she is ready to inflict it on others. It does not wash with me that she or Dani are so scared around a gobby little cow like Jade that they become something they are not?! More likely their true colours are showing after been supressed. Didn't Big John M say that it is impossible to be anything but yourself in the house. Yes Jo and Dani are sheep, but they are guilty of bullying, regardless of whether they have been influenced by Jade.

Nice of Jodie to try and support a mate but she cannot go making excuses for her. Jo is a bully, end of.

[galena]

Originally Posted by Paperbag_Writer

Jodie says that Jo would never bully anyone else having been bullied herself. But the evidence before our eyes says otherwise, unfortunately.

Personally having been bullied and picked on at school I would go out of my way to help other people in that situation. But even as a child I was aware that some people go the other way and join in the bullying, because they are afraid that otherwise they will be targeted and despised them for this ...

[Tommy_tank]

Not a Jodie fan at all, but that is a very well written and well argued piece (although it did make me cringe when she did her usual 'I had it worse' piece). I think Jade has obviously brought out the worst in Danielle and Jo - if Jade is evicted tomorrow, then they may be able to pull it around, although I think far too much damage has been done now.

Spot on about Jade putting on her 'thicko' act as well - that Eskimo question was almost a parody of herself.

[georgy]

I said that last night too, Jade was rambling on and acting dumb, and she was definitely putting it on big style.

[rosiecotton]

Agree about Jade but Jo is an adult and responsible for her own behaviour. She's instigated many vile comments herself and, don't forget, of all the housemates, she had a ready made friend and ally in Ian and could have chosen to stay with him away from this filth.

[Mr Blonde]

The irony is that if Jodie was up against Jade tomorrow then Jade would stay in.

[FoxyStoat]

I really like Jodie. Always have

[WillowFae]

So the big bully from last year's CBB who got dropped by a bullying charity is now up in arms about someone bullying this year?

Pot and kettle anyone?

[geralous]

Im not so sure about the article, imo dani and jo have demonstrated more OVERT racism than Jade.

Jade just seems extremely ignorant