Is it wrong to think someone is hot even if they've done something really terrible?? - General Discussion

MsSocialist · 22-05-2007, 21:32

Say for example a murderer... even if you know what they did was completely horrific but you find them attractive purely on a physical level. is it wrong? surely people cant help who they fancy??

hobbes · 22-05-2007, 21:35

I gues most people would be a bit disgusted by what the guy had done. It reminds me of the catherine Tate sketch I guess.

I remember when the West case was big news finding Steven west really attractive and being a bit shocked (although obviously he wasn't a murderer)

pxd867 · 22-05-2007, 21:35

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Originally Posted by hobbes

I gues most people would be a bit disgusted by what the guy had done. It reminds me of the catherine Tate sketch I guess.

I remember when the West case was big news finding Steven west really attractive and being a bit shocked (although obviously he wasn't a murderer)

I thought you meant Fred West then!

22-05-2007, 21:37

In a way I would find it wrong, I couldnt get past the crimes they would have committed.

MsSocialist · 22-05-2007, 21:39

who is steven west?? lol i thought u were talkin about Fred West too, i was gonna say, hes a right minger how could u fancy hiim!!!

I think one of the Columbine high school shooters was hot

obv im not condoning what he did but i still think he was hot.

lol

pxd867 · 22-05-2007, 21:39

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Originally Posted by LikeSarah

who is steven west?? lol i thought u were talkin about Fred West too, i was gonna say, hes a right minger how could u fancy hiim!!!

I think one of the Columbine high school shooters was hot

obv im not condoning what he did but i still think he was hot.

lol

That is disturbing! But quite funny!

Hang on.. I thought you were a lesbian?

hobbes · 22-05-2007, 21:40

Steven son of Fred

Fancying Fred (or Rose) might have been a bit scary.

SparkleBabe · 22-05-2007, 21:40

I used to post on a message board where there was a poster who had a crush on Ian Huntley. Now I found that pretty sick TBH.

I suppose it depends what they have done. If they are just a rough gangster type maybe its not bad, but if they are rapists and murderes then its probably not a good idea.

Deathwarmedup · 22-05-2007, 21:43

There was a punk song 30 odd years ago about a young bloke who fancied Myra Hindley.
I thought Ian Huntleys girlfriend was quite attractive, can't remember her name. But I'd never go approach anyone like that as I couldn't live with the thought of the crimes they'd commited or been associated with.

MsSocialist · 22-05-2007, 21:44

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Originally Posted by pxd867

That is disturbing! But quite funny!

Hang on.. I thought you were a lesbian?

No my friend, i am an equals opportunity employer!! lol. no, i like either, somedays i feel more gay somedays i feel more straight.... i dont discriminate

stoatie · 22-05-2007, 21:56

I always had kind of a crush on Susan Atkins, one of the Manson Family.

And Leila Khaled, when she was younger.

MsSocialist · 22-05-2007, 21:58

lol im glad im not alone

Dante Ameche · 22-05-2007, 22:10

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Originally Posted by SparkleBabe

I used to post on a message board where there was a poster who had a crush on Ian Huntley. Now I found that pretty sick TBH.

I suppose it depends what they have done. If they are just a rough gangster type maybe its not bad, but if they are rapists and murderes then its probably not a good idea.

Are you talking about the plastic gangster type that hangs round the park drinking cider and bragging about the scar he got in a fight which he really got when he fell off his little sisters bicycle?

Or are you on about the real gangsters that run protection rackets, launder money and actually commit murders?

MsSocialist · 22-05-2007, 22:11

doesnt mean you are condoning what they did if you think someone is good looking.

viewaskew · 22-05-2007, 22:13

It depends on how hot the person is and how heinous the act they've committed is.

If the person is INSANELY hot then its OK to like them even if they've been a genocide mastermind.

However if they are average then......well a parking fine is probably terrible enough to say forget it.

MsSocialist · 22-05-2007, 22:19

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Originally Posted by viewaskew

It depends on how hot the person is and how heinous the act they've committed is.

If the person is INSANELY hot then its OK to like them even if they've been a genocide mastermind.

However if they are average then......well a parking fine is probably terrible enough to say forget it.

You drive a hard bargain! :P lol.

22-05-2007, 22:24

I think I'd be able to take an objective view on anyone's looks and see them as handsome or attractive purely on a physical level... but fancying them is something else. So, no, I don't think it's wrong to think someone is hot even if they've done something terrible.

However, if I knew someone was a serial killer and total psychopath I don't think I'd be able to fancy him or have a crush regardless of how much of a looker he happened to be. There needs to be something going on beyond pure physical attraction for me to move from a 'oh, he's nice looking' to 'oh, I really quite fancy the pants off him!'

22-05-2007, 21:32	#1
MsSocialist Banned User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Shire. Posts: 495	Is it wrong to think someone is hot even if they've done something really terrible?? Say for example a murderer... even if you know what they did was completely horrific but you find them attractive purely on a physical level. is it wrong? surely people cant help who they fancy??

22-05-2007, 21:35	#2
hobbes Forum Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Sunny Manchester Posts: 4,406	I gues most people would be a bit disgusted by what the guy had done. It reminds me of the catherine Tate sketch I guess. I remember when the West case was big news finding Steven west really attractive and being a bit shocked (although obviously he wasn't a murderer)

22-05-2007, 21:37	#4
Eternal Life Posts: n/a	In a way I would find it wrong, I couldnt get past the crimes they would have committed.

22-05-2007, 21:39	#5
MsSocialist Banned User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Shire. Posts: 495	who is steven west?? lol i thought u were talkin about Fred West too, i was gonna say, hes a right minger how could u fancy hiim!!! I think one of the Columbine high school shooters was hot obv im not condoning what he did but i still think he was hot. lol

22-05-2007, 21:40	#7
hobbes Forum Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Sunny Manchester Posts: 4,406	Steven son of Fred Fancying Fred (or Rose) might have been a bit scary.

22-05-2007, 21:40	#8
SparkleBabe Inactive Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: My House Services: Sky+, Top Up TV, AOL Posts: 15,938 Blog Entries: 3	I used to post on a message board where there was a poster who had a crush on Ian Huntley. Now I found that pretty sick TBH. I suppose it depends what they have done. If they are just a rough gangster type maybe its not bad, but if they are rapists and murderes then its probably not a good idea.

22-05-2007, 21:43	#9
Deathwarmedup Forum Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Dover, Kent Services: Television & wireless Posts: 5,077	There was a punk song 30 odd years ago about a young bloke who fancied Myra Hindley. I thought Ian Huntleys girlfriend was quite attractive, can't remember her name. But I'd never go approach anyone like that as I couldn't live with the thought of the crimes they'd commited or been associated with.

22-05-2007, 21:56	#11
stoatie Forum Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 17,034	I always had kind of a crush on Susan Atkins, one of the Manson Family. And Leila Khaled, when she was younger.

22-05-2007, 21:58	#12
MsSocialist Banned User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Shire. Posts: 495	lol im glad im not alone

22-05-2007, 22:11	#14
MsSocialist Banned User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Shire. Posts: 495	doesnt mean you are condoning what they did if you think someone is good looking.

22-05-2007, 22:13	#15
viewaskew Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Services: Virgin 10Mb, VM XL , Freeview, O2, SE K800i Posts: 2,714	It depends on how hot the person is and how heinous the act they've committed is. If the person is INSANELY hot then its OK to like them even if they've been a genocide mastermind. However if they are average then......well a parking fine is probably terrible enough to say forget it.

22-05-2007, 22:24	#17
Bookends Posts: n/a	I think I'd be able to take an objective view on anyone's looks and see them as handsome or attractive purely on a physical level... but fancying them is something else. So, no, I don't think it's wrong to think someone is hot even if they've done something terrible. However, if I knew someone was a serial killer and total psychopath I don't think I'd be able to fancy him or have a crush regardless of how much of a looker he happened to be. There needs to be something going on beyond pure physical attraction for me to move from a 'oh, he's nice looking' to 'oh, I really quite fancy the pants off him!'