The Stephen Gately Condolences and appreciation thread - Showbiz

louloubelle1978 · 16-10-2009, 21:17

I have been reading the other thread about Stephen Gately and feel there should be a thread in which to put your condolences on, and also any nice memories you have about Stephen and also about Boyzone.

There are a lot of fans who are hurting, and may not want to read what is being written and discussed in the other thread at the moment. So please use this thread for good memories you have or to say goodbye.

RIP Stephen

Louise x

methodyguy · 16-10-2009, 21:19

Thank you for setting this up loulou.

methodyguy · 16-10-2009, 21:21

I feel so sad that you have gone Dear Stephen but I know you are happy in Heaven.

Sleep well Stephen xxx

Abbasolutely 40 · 16-10-2009, 21:23

Rest in Peace ,Stephen ,
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam dilis

minnie1957 · 16-10-2009, 21:24

RIP Stephen. May you rest in peace.
My thoughts are with Andrew and Stephens family and friends.

hayleyg · 16-10-2009, 21:28

Thank you Stephen for 16 years of happy memories and joy. You always put so much effort in to the performances and looked like you were having a blast up on stage with your brothers when I saw you back in June. You will never be forgotten and all the music and videos will continue to bring a smile to my face for many many years to come.

So wherever you are right now, I hope you are at peace and looking down, seeing just how much you are loved.

May your star always shine brightly and your song always be sung. God bless you Stephen xx

My thoughts and prayers are with Andrew, all your family and friends and Mikey, Keith, Ronan and Shane.

wildhollie · 16-10-2009, 21:31

RIP Stephen, my condolences to Andrew, your family, Ronan, Mikey, Shane and Keith and anyone who knew him x

Murraymar · 16-10-2009, 21:41

Very good idea Louloubelle. Wasn't a boyzone fan (I was too old) but Stephen seemed like a lovely young lad. One of the good guys. My condolences to his family and husband. RIP Stephen

skn06 · 16-10-2009, 21:46

Stephen, such a lovely lovely guy...RIP, I know you are going to be one of the brightest stars shinning in the sky looking down on us all.....

To all your family, and to Andrew, Ronan, Shane, Keith, Mikey and all your friends, my thoughts and prayers are with you all xxx

Sleep Well Stephen, thanks for the memories xxx

monalisa62003 · 16-10-2009, 21:55

hey guys

i've opened a chat room for the all nighter you can join if you want

http://tinychat.com/boyzoneallnighter

welshsarah · 16-10-2009, 22:05

swwetdreams stephen
watching your tour with boyzone at manchester you looked so happy x

cazmac · 16-10-2009, 22:16

R.I.P sweet Stephen.My deepest sympathies to your family husband and friends xx

pinkbellybutton · 16-10-2009, 22:26

You always had the sweetest voice with a disposition to match, and the warmest most genuine smile I have ever seen....you're singing with the angels now doll, and they're lucky to have you. Thank you for brightening up my teen years, R.I.P xxx

MY thoughts and prayers are with Stephen's loved ones.

monalisa62003 · 16-10-2009, 22:36

we got a message to the boyz about the all nighter and they said thankyou bless them

Vincy82 · 16-10-2009, 22:42

May you find everlasting peace young Stephen. In life you made so many people happy and you will not be forgotten by those who like and love you. God bless you.

Julie J · 16-10-2009, 22:45

Thanks for setting this thread up
R.I.P Stephen and you won't be forgotten

Radiomaniac · 16-10-2009, 22:46

R.I.P. Stephen.

My condolences to husband Andrew, the boyz, Stephen's family, friends and fans everywhere.

Nice idea, OP.

glitzy · 16-10-2009, 22:47

Quote:

Originally Posted by monalisa62003

we got a message to the boyz about the all nighter and they said thankyou bless them

That's lovely

I'm so glad they know that the fans will be with them tonight. I wish I could stay up with you but I suspect work will be hard enough to concentrate on tomorrow without falling asleep too.

louloubelle1978 · 16-10-2009, 22:54

Its no worries. I'm glad everyone thinks its a good idea.

I couldn't believe the vitrol and downright nastiness in the other thread.

Really no need, especially the night before the funeral.

I posted this last night in the other thread, but I fear it got loss amongst the angst...

RIP Stephen Gately
I've always been a Boyzone fan.
I never ever felt embarrased by it either. I may have been a sad "Brit Pop Indie Kid" and my friends may have laughed that despite this fact, I had all of Boyzone's albums and can be found singing along to "Picture Of You".
I have always liked the sing-along cheesiness aspect to their songs, that I felt the likes of Take That did not really have.

When I heard "No Matter What", I thought what a lovely song for Stephen's voice. He sounded as sweet as all the comments I've heard said about him who had met him.

A few years ago I was blaring this song again from my bedroom (My flatmates despaired of me by this point, and were used to my sporadic "Boyzone" moments" but even they started singing along to it, and the 5 of us in our late 20's- 2 die hard Oasis fans, one punk Rocker, myself and a depressive Smiths fan, had a random loud sing-along to it with harmonies and everything, which I still remember to this day

This past June, my boyfriend, who is not a fan, took me to see Boyzone in concert. We had a massive argument outside, and I nearly ended up missing the concert as he wanted to go home. I wanted to go in and not miss it and my boyfriend said "Its not as if you will never get to see them perform again" He's a bit sheepish today.

Yes Boyzone was my guilty pleasure, and knowing that there will be no more, that kind of guts me. Yes they can carry on, but Stephen was instumental to the group as much as Ronan was.

Thirty-Three years old is absolutely no age to go. He was only 2 years older than me for chrissakes. Someone so full of life, and from what we know, more or less clean living. So many years ahead of him...

Ok, so the passing of Stephen Gately may not be as massive to some as the passing of Micheal Jackson or even in my case, Kurt Cobain (I cried bucket loads and wore black for a week much to the dismay of my mother - I was 15!!!) but it is as important, as a number of people have lost a brother, a friend, a member of their group, that although you may not have been a fan of their music, that band (with Stephen) touched a lot of lives, some as small as a random sing-a-long on the stairs, to all the fans that saw them live, and of course to a family who may have no idea how their loved one was taken from them.

RIP Steven Gately x

gemmaovwales03 · 16-10-2009, 23:00

My first concert was a Boyzone concert I must have been about 12 me and my best friend back then loved them. Stephen was our favourite

My thoughts are with Andrew, his family, his friends and Boyzone. Instead of flowers Stephen's family have asked for donations to Caudwell Children in just 2 or 3 days they have raised nearly £9000!

http://www.justgiving.com/StephenGately/

Vincy82 · 16-10-2009, 23:04

This is such a nice thread and I only wish I could stay up and join in. I will be here in spirit. My message is in a previous post.

glitzy · 16-10-2009, 23:08

Thank you for starting this louloubelle, its a great idea

Your tribute to Stephen has just made me cry again, you sound exactly like me. I've loved Boyzone since I was 11 and even when all my other music was indie and rock (and pretty depressing tbh), I still kept following them. They always seemed so close as a band and had such appreciation for their fans. Their music was always fun and made me feel good. I went to see them in concert last year and I had such a good time. It felt like I was 15 again and I loved seeing how much they enjoyed performing together again. I honestly can't imagine how the band can continue without him now. Not only were his vocals a huge part of their music but they were like brothers, it will never be the same again

My heart goes out to Andrew, Stephen's family and the rest of the guys. RIP Stephen, you will never be forgotten.

dotty_babe · 16-10-2009, 23:09

I've been a fan from the begining. Saw the boyz in concert 3 times including this summer. Stephen always looked so happy still can't beleive he's gone. I remember the night they announced on children in need that they were getting back together Stephen was so excited

auntiem · 16-10-2009, 23:18

Quote:

Originally Posted by monalisa62003

we got a message to the boyz about the all nighter and they said thankyou bless them

Im not a Boyzone fan but this is why they are one of the best loved groups. A group of genuine family orientated guys who deeply care about each and everyone.

RIP Stephen, my thoughts and prayers are with Andrew, your family, Boyzone and everyone who knew you.

goldenhat · 16-10-2009, 23:21

I am a lot older than most of you lovely people on here, but always loved Stephen, Boyzone are the one band I wanted to see but never did.

The band looked distraught when Ronan read their statement.

My heart goes out to Andrew, Stephen's parents, the boys, and all their fans.

Rest in peace Stephen, we will never forget you.

Lots of love xx

16-10-2009, 21:17	#1
louloubelle1978 Forum Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: London Services: Virgin Posts: 448	The Stephen Gately Condolences and appreciation thread I have been reading the other thread about Stephen Gately and feel there should be a thread in which to put your condolences on, and also any nice memories you have about Stephen and also about Boyzone. There are a lot of fans who are hurting, and may not want to read what is being written and discussed in the other thread at the moment. So please use this thread for good memories you have or to say goodbye. RIP Stephen Louise x

16-10-2009, 21:19	#2
methodyguy Forum Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,072	Thank you for setting this up loulou.

16-10-2009, 21:21	#3
methodyguy Forum Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,072	I feel so sad that you have gone Dear Stephen but I know you are happy in Heaven. Sleep well Stephen xxx

16-10-2009, 21:23	#4
Abbasolutely 40 Forum Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,532	Rest in Peace ,Stephen , Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam dilis

16-10-2009, 21:24	#5
minnie1957 Forum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 318	RIP Stephen. May you rest in peace. My thoughts are with Andrew and Stephens family and friends.

16-10-2009, 21:28	#6
hayleyg Forum Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Birmingham UK Posts: 15,541	Thank you Stephen for 16 years of happy memories and joy. You always put so much effort in to the performances and looked like you were having a blast up on stage with your brothers when I saw you back in June. You will never be forgotten and all the music and videos will continue to bring a smile to my face for many many years to come. So wherever you are right now, I hope you are at peace and looking down, seeing just how much you are loved. May your star always shine brightly and your song always be sung. God bless you Stephen xx My thoughts and prayers are with Andrew, all your family and friends and Mikey, Keith, Ronan and Shane.

16-10-2009, 21:31	#7
wildhollie Forum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 994	RIP Stephen, my condolences to Andrew, your family, Ronan, Mikey, Shane and Keith and anyone who knew him x

16-10-2009, 21:41	#8
Murraymar Forum Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Cork, Ireland Services: Sky, Eircom Broadband Posts: 3,936	Very good idea Louloubelle. Wasn't a boyzone fan (I was too old) but Stephen seemed like a lovely young lad. One of the good guys. My condolences to his family and husband. RIP Stephen

16-10-2009, 21:46	#9
skn06 Forum Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 518	Stephen, such a lovely lovely guy...RIP, I know you are going to be one of the brightest stars shinning in the sky looking down on us all..... To all your family, and to Andrew, Ronan, Shane, Keith, Mikey and all your friends, my thoughts and prayers are with you all xxx Sleep Well Stephen, thanks for the memories xxx

16-10-2009, 21:55	#10
monalisa62003 Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: N.Ireland! Services: One of Tom's Girls Waterloo Road 2009! Posts: 6,753	hey guys i've opened a chat room for the all nighter you can join if you want http://tinychat.com/boyzoneallnighter

16-10-2009, 22:05	#11
welshsarah Forum Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: South Wales Posts: 1,323	swwetdreams stephen watching your tour with boyzone at manchester you looked so happy x

16-10-2009, 22:16	#12
cazmac Forum Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Taunton Somerset Services: SKY Posts: 309	R.I.P sweet Stephen.My deepest sympathies to your family husband and friends xx

16-10-2009, 22:26	#13
pinkbellybutton Forum Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 985	You always had the sweetest voice with a disposition to match, and the warmest most genuine smile I have ever seen....you're singing with the angels now doll, and they're lucky to have you. Thank you for brightening up my teen years, R.I.P xxx MY thoughts and prayers are with Stephen's loved ones.

16-10-2009, 22:36	#14
monalisa62003 Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: N.Ireland! Services: One of Tom's Girls Waterloo Road 2009! Posts: 6,753	we got a message to the boyz about the all nighter and they said thankyou bless them

16-10-2009, 22:42	#15
Vincy82 Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6,015	May you find everlasting peace young Stephen. In life you made so many people happy and you will not be forgotten by those who like and love you. God bless you.

16-10-2009, 22:45	#16
Julie J Forum Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: A Geordie In London Services: SACK JAN MOIR!!!!!!! Posts: 658	Thanks for setting this thread up R.I.P Stephen and you won't be forgotten

16-10-2009, 22:46	#17
Radiomaniac Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In Old Amsterdam Services: Cheese, Clogs, Tulips, Barrel Organ Posts: 17,813 Blog Entries: 2	R.I.P. Stephen. My condolences to husband Andrew, the boyz, Stephen's family, friends and fans everywhere. Nice idea, OP.

16-10-2009, 22:54	#19
louloubelle1978 Forum Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: London Services: Virgin Posts: 448	Its no worries. I'm glad everyone thinks its a good idea. I couldn't believe the vitrol and downright nastiness in the other thread. Really no need, especially the night before the funeral. I posted this last night in the other thread, but I fear it got loss amongst the angst... RIP Stephen Gately I've always been a Boyzone fan. I never ever felt embarrased by it either. I may have been a sad "Brit Pop Indie Kid" and my friends may have laughed that despite this fact, I had all of Boyzone's albums and can be found singing along to "Picture Of You". I have always liked the sing-along cheesiness aspect to their songs, that I felt the likes of Take That did not really have. When I heard "No Matter What", I thought what a lovely song for Stephen's voice. He sounded as sweet as all the comments I've heard said about him who had met him. A few years ago I was blaring this song again from my bedroom (My flatmates despaired of me by this point, and were used to my sporadic "Boyzone" moments" but even they started singing along to it, and the 5 of us in our late 20's- 2 die hard Oasis fans, one punk Rocker, myself and a depressive Smiths fan, had a random loud sing-along to it with harmonies and everything, which I still remember to this day This past June, my boyfriend, who is not a fan, took me to see Boyzone in concert. We had a massive argument outside, and I nearly ended up missing the concert as he wanted to go home. I wanted to go in and not miss it and my boyfriend said "Its not as if you will never get to see them perform again" He's a bit sheepish today. Yes Boyzone was my guilty pleasure, and knowing that there will be no more, that kind of guts me. Yes they can carry on, but Stephen was instumental to the group as much as Ronan was. Thirty-Three years old is absolutely no age to go. He was only 2 years older than me for chrissakes. Someone so full of life, and from what we know, more or less clean living. So many years ahead of him... Ok, so the passing of Stephen Gately may not be as massive to some as the passing of Micheal Jackson or even in my case, Kurt Cobain (I cried bucket loads and wore black for a week much to the dismay of my mother - I was 15!!!) but it is as important, as a number of people have lost a brother, a friend, a member of their group, that although you may not have been a fan of their music, that band (with Stephen) touched a lot of lives, some as small as a random sing-a-long on the stairs, to all the fans that saw them live, and of course to a family who may have no idea how their loved one was taken from them. RIP Steven Gately x

16-10-2009, 23:00	#20
gemmaovwales03 Forum Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Wales Services: Sky+HD, O2 Posts: 4,402	My first concert was a Boyzone concert I must have been about 12 me and my best friend back then loved them. Stephen was our favourite My thoughts are with Andrew, his family, his friends and Boyzone. Instead of flowers Stephen's family have asked for donations to Caudwell Children in just 2 or 3 days they have raised nearly £9000! http://www.justgiving.com/StephenGately/

16-10-2009, 23:04	#21
Vincy82 Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 6,015	This is such a nice thread and I only wish I could stay up and join in. I will be here in spirit. My message is in a previous post.

16-10-2009, 23:08	#22
glitzy Forum Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 380	Thank you for starting this louloubelle, its a great idea Your tribute to Stephen has just made me cry again, you sound exactly like me. I've loved Boyzone since I was 11 and even when all my other music was indie and rock (and pretty depressing tbh), I still kept following them. They always seemed so close as a band and had such appreciation for their fans. Their music was always fun and made me feel good. I went to see them in concert last year and I had such a good time. It felt like I was 15 again and I loved seeing how much they enjoyed performing together again. I honestly can't imagine how the band can continue without him now. Not only were his vocals a huge part of their music but they were like brothers, it will never be the same again My heart goes out to Andrew, Stephen's family and the rest of the guys. RIP Stephen, you will never be forgotten.

16-10-2009, 23:09	#23
dotty_babe Forum Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 56	I've been a fan from the begining. Saw the boyz in concert 3 times including this summer. Stephen always looked so happy still can't beleive he's gone. I remember the night they announced on children in need that they were getting back together Stephen was so excited

16-10-2009, 23:21	#25
goldenhat Forum Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 203	I am a lot older than most of you lovely people on here, but always loved Stephen, Boyzone are the one band I wanted to see but never did. The band looked distraught when Ronan read their statement. My heart goes out to Andrew, Stephen's parents, the boys, and all their fans. Rest in peace Stephen, we will never forget you. Lots of love xx